Conscious Empowerment Series: Meet Dr. Damary Bonilla-Rodriguez
Interview with Dr. Damary Bonilla-Rodriguez
What inspired your career choice?
Life's challenges and my passion to be a voice for others have lead me to a career in leadership development and politics. As a young girl, I dreamed of becoming a criminal defense attorney. Unfortunately, growing up in poverty meant that I always had a job while pursuing higher education. Therefore, I was never able to afford attending law school while being unemployed, which most law schools demanded when I took my LSAT and tried to apply.
The circumstances I faced didn't stop me from pursuing my education, and I became even more motivated to make a positive difference in the world. An educational focus on communication, how organizations work and supporting the development of others as leaders, inspired my career in the non-profit and government sectors. Outside of work, I've been civically engaged at the local and national levels, served on boards of organizations with shared values, and am currently an appointed and elected official in a state that has never sent a woman of color to the U.S. Senate. My current role has given me the perfect opportunity to develop black and brown political leaders, especially those who’re female, to change the dynamics in a sector where people of color and women are often underrepresented and undermined.
What intrigues you about the book Conscious Empowerment?
Well, the title emphasizes how empowerment is a deliberate action. Our world would be very different if we had more people who were aware of the critical issues impacting girls, and had the tools to make a positive difference in their lives. I believe the book will effectively empower all girls, regardless of race and ethnicity.
What is your best advice for individuals who work and live with girls?
It's important to understand the challenges girls face as they navigate life, school, relationships, etc. Additionally, individuals supporting girls should be aware of resources for girls so they can provide relevant and timely support. Girls don't always have environments that are conducive to their innate power and leadership abilities. Individuals who care about girls should help them identify their passions and develop their skills.
What advice did you give to your younger self?
When I was younger, I faced and overcame many obstacles due through support from my family, faith, and mentors, all of which are still useful for me. I received advice from my mentor that I give now as a wife, mother and professional. I'd tell my younger self that family, faith and mentorship will always build you back up and help you keep going. I'd tell her that she was amazing and should pat herself on the back more often, as she’s accomplished so much. I'd tell her that perfection can't be achieved, so she should breathe and cut herself some slack from time to time. I'd tell her that, while it's important to work hard, it's also important to take time to refuel because practicing self-care will allow her to become the best version of herself. I'd also remind her that she's good enough, and that she'll become the woman she’s meant to be.
What makes you Empowered & Poised?
To me, being empowered means being aware of, and sensitive to the needs of others. This realization has allowed me to become a leader, and act as a voice for vulnerable and marginalized communities. As a Latina with a Doctorate who didn't follow the typical educational/career path, as the first Hispanic elected to my local School Board, and accomplishing many other "firsts," I'm constantly breaking barriers for myself and for others. Staying focused on what matters most and not being moved by the challenges of racism, ageism, classism and the many “isms” is how I demonstrate pose. Leadership is hard, and therefore, empowerment is the daily choice to put on your armor and fight the battles before you for your sake and for others. My armor is still family, faith and mentorship. I often say that I live a crazy but fulfilled life, and I believe I’ve captured what it means to be an empowered and poised woman.
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